I told myself I would post in here once I conceived but I never thought I was going to have to wait 10 months to do so.
We started not preventing last April. Thought I was pregnant EVERY month! When we had gotten to about the 6 month mark I started temping and then doing OPKs. Found that my timing was a few days off in regards to the day of ovulation so I was hopeful we would concieve right away. Still nothing!! We then started to use Preseed as well. We tried it all for about 2-3 cycles.
The month I conceived I actually forgot I was approaching ovulation. I hated when people would talk about relaxing and crap. It didn't work for us so i wasn't purposely trying to forget. I was preparing for a vacation, did some
House projects, quit googling everything, and took a hiatus from all blogs. We did everything like the previous months and make sure to time things as best as we could. We didn't even use pressed for the two days prior to ovulation.
I continued to exercise, drink coffee, eat sugar etc. Unlike other months where I had sworn all of that away.
I had all of my normal pre period symptoms including sore boobs, skin break outs, tired off and on, and back aches occasionally. At 11 dpo I started spotting and even told my husband we were out again this month. So, we confirmed plans for me to meet with my primary doctor after our trip to get check out. The spotting stopped about a day later and never returned. I took a dollar store test the morning my period was due and I was a standard positive! So, I took an FRER too. It was also obviously positive.
I woke up my husband immediately and we are still in disbelief.
I had a few cramps during the spotting time up until 14 dpo but they have disappeared. The only thing that remains is sore boobs and I ALWAYS have to pee.
Moral of the story is. It can take longer than you anticipate to concieve. Try not to let it run your life.
Don't listen to the people who just say relax, it will happen. That didn't work for us and I was always very hurt when people would try to tell me that.
Lastly, it's not over till it's over. I thought for sure I was getting my period but, it just never came. Instead I got two pink lines :)
This has been the hardest trial my husband and I have been through. Unless you have struggled to concieve you can't understand how it feels. I want you all to know that I have been there and that there is hope.