Been trying for nearly 2 years and ofcourse stalking this site for a long time until I told myself to stay away from this site to not think about it. We finally got a bfp on 15dpo. I have a regular 32-33 days max cycle and we only bd'd CD16 and CD18 (not putting too much pressure anymore as after 19 cycles, it has been getting all the "making baby fun" subsided by counting days cycles after cycles) this cycle. I did not use preseed this cycle, been using occasionally previously. I spotted on 11DPO for 2 days, which I thought for sure it was the sign that AF is showing but a little strange though I thought why would AF comes early this round as I would usualy did on 14dpo or CD32/32, with a regular 13-14 days of luteal phase. Moreover, FF chart suggested that I O'd on CD19 this round, which usually was CD17. So, I was feeling off that spotting started which leads to preparing for another cycle but in the same time, feeling strange it came earlier. I even had pad put on. Then, spotting stopped from 13dpo. I had some AF like cramps and was still waiting for the witch to show but nothing came and I kept wiping very carefully and checking toilet after every pee searching for AF. But nothing showed at all other than some very clear little cm.
Night of 14DPO, I bought 2 clearblue, one being the compact with result in lines and the other being digital. I was thinking to only use the digital if the earlier ones came out positive. I waited and did not test that night until I was awake by dreaming of myself getting a disbelieve bfp result on a test. I was also awaken by needed to pee as I couldn't hold, and this rarely happened to me during midnights. It was 3am. So I tested, very soon almost immediately, I got 2 lines! I was in disbelief and was shaken. Told DH and he asked to test the digital before getting excited (we were both sceptical after so many cycles). So at near 6am, I tested on digital, and first time in my life, I finally saw "pregnant" on my own test kit and soon after 2 minutes or so, it showed 2-3 weeks pregnant.
I went to a clinic for a test in the morning, just to be sure, but the result was negative. after researching online, I realised that clinics may use kits that are not as sensitive as some other brands we got for home test. So on the same night, I went to drugstore and bought a few more kits and tested, it has been consistently bfp immediately. Am now 17dpo and should be on 5 weeks. Will continue to test, I know am a freak but I just couldn't be sure until I hear a yes from a doctor. We will be going to clinic again this weekend for a test and hopefully, it shows!
I do not have any symptoms except some pulling sensation near my left abdomen and probably slightly heavier boobs and insomnia from 3am onwards. Ah, gastric been getting more frequent.
So ladies who are still trying, please really do not give up hope, even if you do not have any symptom(s). I know many have said so, but it is really true. I guess, when it is time, God will know what to do for you. Baby dust to all of you!